Family is one of my top values, which may explain why we had six children. We decided before those blessings entered the universe, I would be available to them 24 hours a day/7 days a week (aka stay-at-home mom). Obviously, I was oblivious to what my future held, still (most days), when the house is finally quiet, being "mom" is an honor!

Creating a connected family is vital. I want to share some ideas, so whether you are a stay-at-home mom or full time working mom the desire to "do" family well is what ultimately drives us. You ready?

1-Be Intentional

2-Create Connections

"Create Shared Meaning" is one of Gottman's 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work. Having shared rituals, traditions, or celebrations is one way to bond as a family. There are multiple ways and endless possibilities to explore. Whether it is a holiday hoopla, birthday bash or any other event, what matters most is establishing traditions for building memories.

Did I mention I have six kids? And six birthdays and an anniversary within 45 days? We know how to party!! Even though some years it almost killed me (kind of wish I was joking), we made it a priority to bring honor through some sort of festivity. After doing this for over 21 years these are my children's highlighted moments. This is what sets us apart. These occassions bind us together as a family unit and make us unique.

Fun traditions create unity within the home. Each time I design a special birthday breakfast, my child feels loved and appreciated. Every December, the 25 Days of Christmas activity solidifies our bond. The craziness of the annual backpacking trip deepens the appreciation of family.

Does this take work on my part?

YEP!!

HUGE efforts have gone into these events over the years. BUT IT IS SO WORTH IT!!

I challenge you to start small and add one tradition that is appealing to your family. Have FUN!