Well done.

Words we all hope to hear after we have taken our last breath.

But what about now? How does a mom know she is rocking it on the home front?

For twenty-two years I have held one job title, Mom. I didn’t have to apply for the job. No hiring interview necessary. Just a few, okay, nine really long months and bam. You are a mom.

When I held a paying job I was evaluated. After the assessment, I felt good about my employment and carried on with even more passion. But in my current position as mom…nothing. Only critics from both inside and outside, ringing in my already questioning mind.

Did they have enough wet and soiled diapers?

Did they get enough to eat?

Did they get enough sleep?

Did I forget to brush their teeth again?

If you go by mom, you get the drill. Doubts haunt my quiet moments when I see other mothers move with ease, and confidence while their children wearing matching, clean clothes.

Last summer my husband gave me a five-star approval rating. Before you start thinking what kind of crazy, old school system do you function within, let me explain. My husband bravely took our six children hiking 4.5 miles to spend the night under the big blue sky. No outhouse, running water or luxuries of any kind. They had the best time together. Tons of laughing, dancing party, campfire stories and bonding encompassed their time together. They love being together.

With sincere gratitude, my hubby thanked me for raising such amazing kids. Siblings who enjoy each other. He was thankful for my intentional approach to parenthood and raising a bonded family. He was proud to be the papa bear to such a lively bunch who treasured time together.

Well done?

Yes, I think so. I get a glimpse of these moments from time to time but when you are still in the thick of raising a family, sometimes you are too close to see.

However, for one memory creating, crazy camping trip it shined brightly. It was so evident to my husband that his family overflowed with all the things we could hope for within our spunky unit.

I passed my assessment with flying colors!!

I will carry on with passion and purpose knowing so far so good. Definitely going to treasure these words from my man, protector, and father of my children.

What about me?

Depending on where you are in your parenting journey this story can be helpful or hurtful. My challenge – get more intentional in your mothering. What do you value? Where do you want your family to be successful? It is NEVER too late. 

Write out ONE goals that you desire. Siblings to bond? First time obedience? Manners? Respect towards others?

Start with ONE thing. Slowly you can begin to change your family. 

Mothering is a job. Take inventory. Change what needs adjusting. Then be patient. Your hard work WILL pay off!

Stay strong mom!! Your day is coming!! 

Galatians 6:7 “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked, For whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.”